Maybe one day, I'll be what you need. But don't wait too long.. Because the day you want me, may be the day I've finally given up.

When we wait, and continue to wait for someone to decide if we are what they need, we not only limit our lives, but we also say to ourselves that we aren't important enough to be treated as special as we deserve to be.

Sure relationships have their rocky times, and sometimes we may all need a little break to be able to become stronger together, but we should never give someone the opportunity to make us an option that they can come back to whenever they please. We have to have enough confidence and respect for ourselves to know that our life should never be centered around another person. If a person truly loves us for who we are, they would never leave us hanging out to dry so long that we have no clue of when or if they will ever come back. Be yourself, and do the things that make you happy, when you do along the way you will find someone willing to be happy with you, instead of someone who feels like they can put you down, and pick you back up whenever you please.

Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing; some people are not even worth your words.

Sometimes people will have their own preconceived notions about you, what you believe in, and what you do, before you ever get the chance to show them, and because of this, nothing that you can do or say will prove to them otherwise. This lesson is a hard lesson to learn through life, because some of us desire to go through life in the hopes of being able to help as many people as we possibly can by showing them light.

Stop trying with the people that you know in your heart will never receive it. Some people just put up a brick wall, and desire to see nothing but the light in you fade away, because they have trouble getting people to see the light in them. There are so many other people's lives that can be changed, with so much less time! Don't get down on yourself when others refuse to receive what you have to say, or refuse to accept what you believe. Continue to push on through life giving words of hope to those who are worth them, those who will receive them.

I am what I am, if you don't like me, turn your head, and walk away, simple as that.

Being who you are isn't something that you should have to debate about with any of your so called "friends". When a person tries to dictate your thoughts, your opinions, your words, your style, and everything else that makes you unique, you have to realize that they honestly have no desire to see who you are as a person, blossom. Those who don't like you may at times try to tell you how to live your life, and may pass judgment on you, but in the end it is only the judgment from God that truly matters.

Don't allow yourself to live your life trying to make everyone like you, and trying to please people who you will never please. Keep it simple, and give time to those who give you respect and love, instead of the ones whose intentions are out of nothing more than hate, jealousy and spite.

heart speaks....

heartful thoughts.....

heart speaks ......

heart full thoughts .....

 If you are going to fall in love with me, it's only fair that you know what you are falling in love with.

You are falling in love with my insecurities, and my obsession with trying to figure out what everyone thinks of me. You are falling in love with my immaturity, my constant need to feel loved and appreciated, my overactive tear ducts, my internet obsession, my tendency to be too clingy. You fall in love with my troubled past, and my hopes and dreams, and how I'm a hopeless romantic at heart. If you fall in love with me, you fall in love with my self-hate and all my imperfections and my perception that nobody could ever love me.

But, you are also falling in love with the way my eyes will smile when I'm with you, the way I'll text you in the mornings just telling you I hope you have a great day. You're falling in love with the occasionally humorous and/or thought-provoking things I say, and the way I blush when people ask me about you. But to me, the most important thing will be that you are falling in love with me, despite my thinking that it is impossible.

My Music: Someday by Rob Thomas

someday we'll figure all this out..try to put an end to all our doubt...maybe someday we'll live our lives out loud..we'll better off somehow ...SOMEDAY :-)

My Travel: at Hotel Atrium, Irvine, California

Food Trip: at home ...Lunch Preparations/Cooking

 Fresh Cut Chicken with salt, pepper and some spices

 grilling chicken all the way

 mixed veggies .....yummy !

 wrapped mixed veggies

 yes! grilled chicken ....

lunch for my family :-)

heart speaks .....

yes…

Every woman needs her man to hold her and tell her that she’s beautiful. Every woman needs her man to fight for her and live for her. A man who has dreams like hers and who will take the time to place his heart inside her heart. A man who is not afraid to say “I’m sorry” when he’s wrong. A man that will not leave her but will stand right by her side till the end of her life…

How to Create Excitement in a Relationship

When a relationship is boring, there is a great tendency that it will not last long. The couples will soon get tired with the routine and monotony. This usually happens with long-term relationships. Couples with feel bored with each other over time.  It is important to have a variation and avoid sticking to a usual routine. Excitement and fun are needed to motivate the couples to stay together. You will never run out of ways on how to add excitement to yours. Here is a list of some ways on how to create excitement in a relationship.

• Break the routine. Excitement comes when something which is not a part of the plan happens. There are times when it is a lot better not to stick to what has been planned. You can do it by taking your wife out instead of having dinner at home. Instead of sleeping at your bedroom, rent a room for a night and enjoy a romantic night together. Intimacy is a very important element of any romantic relationship. Try to do the things that you haven’t tried before.
• Explore other places. Take your partner with you on a vacation somewhere. Choose a place you have never been into to add excitement. Exploring a new location together is another way to add or create excitement in your relationship.
• Practice spontaneity. Instead of sticking to your original plan, you can spice it up by inserting something which is unexpected which will give a better outcome.
• Go on a date. Set up a romantic dinner for your partner on an ordinary day. This will surely spice up your relationship.
• Give gifts. Gifts are not just for special occasions. By doing so, you will take your relationship back into the track. Personalized gifts are even better so you can exercise your creativity.

There you go! You now have an idea on how you can add excitement to your relationship.

There’s no past tense in loving someone. It’s either you always will or you never did.

thought for the day .....

Food Trip: dinner at Atrium Hotel, Irvine, California

                             Fresh  Green Salad

                                   Super Mexican Meal

My Travel: at Blues and Shoes Carlsbard Village, California

My Travel: at Incheon Airport, Soeul Korea

Special Gifts ....Thank You So Much