When we wait, and continue to wait for someone to decide if we are what
they need, we not only limit our lives, but we also say to ourselves
that we aren't important enough to be treated as special as we deserve
to be.
Sure relationships have their rocky times, and sometimes we may all need
a little break to be able to become stronger together, but we should
never give someone the opportunity to make us an option that they can
come back to whenever they please. We have to have enough confidence and
respect for ourselves to know that our life should never be centered
around another person. If a person truly loves us for who we are, they
would never leave us hanging out to dry so long that we have no clue of
when or if they will ever come back. Be yourself, and do the things that
make you happy, when you do along the way you will find someone willing
to be happy with you, instead of someone who feels like they can put
you down, and pick you back up whenever you please.
Monday, December 24, 2012
Friday, December 21, 2012
Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing; some people are not even worth your words.
Sometimes people will have their own preconceived notions about you,
what you believe in, and what you do, before you ever get the chance to
show them, and because of this, nothing that you can do or say will
prove to them otherwise. This lesson is a hard lesson to learn through
life, because some of us desire to go through life in the hopes of being
able to help as many people as we possibly can by showing them light.
Stop trying with the people that you know in your heart will never receive it. Some people just put up a brick wall, and desire to see nothing but the light in you fade away, because they have trouble getting people to see the light in them. There are so many other people's lives that can be changed, with so much less time! Don't get down on yourself when others refuse to receive what you have to say, or refuse to accept what you believe. Continue to push on through life giving words of hope to those who are worth them, those who will receive them.
Stop trying with the people that you know in your heart will never receive it. Some people just put up a brick wall, and desire to see nothing but the light in you fade away, because they have trouble getting people to see the light in them. There are so many other people's lives that can be changed, with so much less time! Don't get down on yourself when others refuse to receive what you have to say, or refuse to accept what you believe. Continue to push on through life giving words of hope to those who are worth them, those who will receive them.
I am what I am, if you don't like me, turn your head, and walk away, simple as that.
Being who you are isn't something that you should have to debate about with any of your so called "friends". When a person tries to dictate your thoughts, your opinions, your words, your style, and everything else that makes you unique, you have to realize that they honestly have no desire to see who you are as a person, blossom. Those who don't like you may at times try to tell you how to live your life, and may pass judgment on you, but in the end it is only the judgment from God that truly matters.
Don't allow yourself to live your life trying to make everyone like you, and trying to please people who you will never please. Keep it simple, and give time to those who give you respect and love, instead of the ones whose intentions are out of nothing more than hate, jealousy and spite.
Sunday, November 4, 2012
Saturday, November 3, 2012
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
heart full thoughts .....
If you are going to fall in love with me, it's only fair that you know what you are falling in love with.
You are falling in love with my insecurities, and my obsession with trying to figure out what everyone thinks of me. You are falling in love with my immaturity, my constant need to feel loved and appreciated, my overactive tear ducts, my internet obsession, my tendency to be too clingy. You fall in love with my troubled past, and my hopes and dreams, and how I'm a hopeless romantic at heart. If you fall in love with me, you fall in love with my self-hate and all my imperfections and my perception that nobody could ever love me.
But, you are also falling in love with the way my eyes will smile when I'm with you, the way I'll text you in the mornings just telling you I hope you have a great day. You're falling in love with the occasionally humorous and/or thought-provoking things I say, and the way I blush when people ask me about you. But to me, the most important thing will be that you are falling in love with me, despite my thinking that it is impossible.
You are falling in love with my insecurities, and my obsession with trying to figure out what everyone thinks of me. You are falling in love with my immaturity, my constant need to feel loved and appreciated, my overactive tear ducts, my internet obsession, my tendency to be too clingy. You fall in love with my troubled past, and my hopes and dreams, and how I'm a hopeless romantic at heart. If you fall in love with me, you fall in love with my self-hate and all my imperfections and my perception that nobody could ever love me.
But, you are also falling in love with the way my eyes will smile when I'm with you, the way I'll text you in the mornings just telling you I hope you have a great day. You're falling in love with the occasionally humorous and/or thought-provoking things I say, and the way I blush when people ask me about you. But to me, the most important thing will be that you are falling in love with me, despite my thinking that it is impossible.
Monday, September 10, 2012
My Music: Someday by Rob Thomas
someday we'll figure all this out..try to put an end to all our
doubt...maybe someday we'll live our lives out loud..we'll better off
somehow ...SOMEDAY :-)
Food Trip: at home ...Lunch Preparations/Cooking
Fresh Cut Chicken with salt, pepper and some spices
grilling chicken all the way
mixed veggies .....yummy !
wrapped mixed veggies
yes! grilled chicken ....
lunch for my family :-)
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
yes…
Every woman needs her man to hold her and tell her that she’s beautiful. Every woman needs her man to fight for her and live for her. A man who has dreams like hers and who will take the time to place his heart inside her heart. A man who is not afraid to say “I’m sorry” when he’s wrong. A man that will not leave her but will stand right by her side till the end of her life…
How to Create Excitement in a Relationship
When a relationship is boring,
there is a great tendency that it will not last long. The couples will
soon get tired with the routine and monotony. This usually happens with
long-term relationships. Couples with feel bored with each other over
time. It is important to have a variation and avoid sticking to a usual
routine. Excitement and fun are needed to motivate the couples to stay
together. You will never run out of ways on how to add excitement to
yours. Here is a list of some ways on how to create excitement in a
relationship.
- Break the routine. Excitement comes when something which is not a part of the plan happens. There are times when it is a lot better not to stick to what has been planned. You can do it by taking your wife out instead of having dinner at home. Instead of sleeping at your bedroom, rent a room for a night and enjoy a romantic night together. Intimacy is a very important element of any romantic relationship. Try to do the things that you haven’t tried before.
- Explore other places. Take your partner with you on a vacation somewhere. Choose a place you have never been into to add excitement. Exploring a new location together is another way to add or create excitement in your relationship.
- Practice spontaneity. Instead of sticking to your original plan, you can spice it up by inserting something which is unexpected which will give a better outcome.
- Go on a date. Set up a romantic dinner for your partner on an ordinary day. This will surely spice up your relationship.
- Give gifts. Gifts are not just for special occasions. By doing so, you will take your relationship back into the track. Personalized gifts are even better so you can exercise your creativity.
There you go! You now have an idea on how you can add excitement to your relationship.
Tuesday, August 28, 2012
Monday, August 27, 2012
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