When we wait, and continue to wait for someone to decide if we are what
they need, we not only limit our lives, but we also say to ourselves
that we aren't important enough to be treated as special as we deserve
to be.
Sure relationships have their rocky times, and sometimes we may all need
a little break to be able to become stronger together, but we should
never give someone the opportunity to make us an option that they can
come back to whenever they please. We have to have enough confidence and
respect for ourselves to know that our life should never be centered
around another person. If a person truly loves us for who we are, they
would never leave us hanging out to dry so long that we have no clue of
when or if they will ever come back. Be yourself, and do the things that
make you happy, when you do along the way you will find someone willing
to be happy with you, instead of someone who feels like they can put
you down, and pick you back up whenever you please.
Monday, December 24, 2012
Friday, December 21, 2012
Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing; some people are not even worth your words.
Sometimes people will have their own preconceived notions about you,
what you believe in, and what you do, before you ever get the chance to
show them, and because of this, nothing that you can do or say will
prove to them otherwise. This lesson is a hard lesson to learn through
life, because some of us desire to go through life in the hopes of being
able to help as many people as we possibly can by showing them light.
Stop trying with the people that you know in your heart will never receive it. Some people just put up a brick wall, and desire to see nothing but the light in you fade away, because they have trouble getting people to see the light in them. There are so many other people's lives that can be changed, with so much less time! Don't get down on yourself when others refuse to receive what you have to say, or refuse to accept what you believe. Continue to push on through life giving words of hope to those who are worth them, those who will receive them.
Stop trying with the people that you know in your heart will never receive it. Some people just put up a brick wall, and desire to see nothing but the light in you fade away, because they have trouble getting people to see the light in them. There are so many other people's lives that can be changed, with so much less time! Don't get down on yourself when others refuse to receive what you have to say, or refuse to accept what you believe. Continue to push on through life giving words of hope to those who are worth them, those who will receive them.
I am what I am, if you don't like me, turn your head, and walk away, simple as that.
Being who you are isn't something that you should have to debate about with any of your so called "friends". When a person tries to dictate your thoughts, your opinions, your words, your style, and everything else that makes you unique, you have to realize that they honestly have no desire to see who you are as a person, blossom. Those who don't like you may at times try to tell you how to live your life, and may pass judgment on you, but in the end it is only the judgment from God that truly matters.
Don't allow yourself to live your life trying to make everyone like you, and trying to please people who you will never please. Keep it simple, and give time to those who give you respect and love, instead of the ones whose intentions are out of nothing more than hate, jealousy and spite.
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